Realisations, epiphanies are great.  I figure things happen for a reason and I am a great believer of this.  Everything that is happening to me right now is not going to get me down.  It must be happening for a reason.  Something better is coming along, I just have to be patient.  Oh and right now I am loving my family so much.  My kids are arguing less, me and the Wife are getting on better and LIFE IS GOOD!